We need other people so badly. Ultimately we are the one’s who change ourselves or finally heal ourselves, but it takes other people to show us the way. It can be brief moments in time or it can be a steady support over years. But we need others. We have to learn through their perspectives, […]

I don’t like being called a temptress. This isn’t a compliment. It is a way for men to rescind responsibility for their feelings and to impose shame on me for being myself. I am the furthest thing from a temptress, I imagine watching me consciously attempt employ an alluring feminine tactic would be the equivalent […]

…until I decided that my fb wall was just not a place to always put my thoughts.  Sometimes I get sporadic, somewhat well formed thoughts which I have the ability to articulate.  I don’t want to censor these thoughts because I think I’m posting too much stuff that could be misconstrued as preachy on the […]